The Power Of Words!

“Jablay”
( in other words something not nice to saying for woman)
I hear this word on my ears yesterday night as one of girl on cafe was calling me as Jablay behind my back.

“Does she think I’m a Jablay?”

And with that I was entered a night determined to do something about her judge as talk about The Power of words

Every call you kid “Stupid?” or “Lazy”? or ever call your friend or some one else “Dog, Monkey or Big Guy ?”

or ever call your GF “Stupid Bitch?” as she was in bad mood or was doing not right?
or ever call you BF ” ASSHOLE?” hhehehehhe …… ( why suddenly I get addict with word asshole on every my blog never mind !)

or ever call people with even with more worse words? or scold them with “Can’t you ever do anything right?”
GUESS WHAT?
your words becomes self – fulfilling prophecies.

When I was tennager one of my friend said to me ” I don’t trust you” and from that day on I determined to give her reason not to trust me and I becomes a juvenile delinquent Again! The Power of words!

See I’m not prefect either
even sometimes I’m still use the power of words as I was feel unscured or feel in bad mood
“Can you do something for your life reather just bothering some one life?” hehhehheh
I’m sorry and I hope they forgive me.

Instead of calling the kid “Stupid”
why don’t you grab him (or her) by the shoulders and say
“wow, you are something!
Am I ever proud of you! what a privelege it is for me to be your parents!”
then said I love you or mama/papa sayang kamu!

Then the instead of calling your gf/bf “Stupid bitch” or “asshole “
“why don’t you grab her ass as like you feel ever really loved a woman
“wow you are something!”
Hmmmm…. baby/honey…. am I ever told you !
You have a great……..great……….A

HOLD ON…. HOLD ON …now she turn around (((((((((((SLAP!!!!!))))))))))))))))

OUPS! thats not work! hehhehe wrong massage on the wrong time (blame the PMS then )
but for some other woman it will work, don’t worry keep try LMOA

so let’s start over again
Then the instead of calling your gf/bf Stupid bitch or asshole
“why don’t you grab her by holding her and give her nice hug as like you feel really loved a woman
“wow you are something!”
hmmmmmm…..
“Am I ever told you, That I love you so much!
what a lucky it is for me to be your gf/bf

And the instead of calling people as bad words as being harshness
why don’t just saying as friendly words even that just simple words as simple hello…
“hi Mrs Ismet”
“hi Mr Chris”
‘Hi Dude or babe….”

Believe me being friendly will make your inner beauty come up cause when you say something nice to people as try make friendship “Hello” ( silaturahmi)
your face show up the happiness as your lips crack up as smile as saying “hello or hi or hai”
then your inner beauty come up that also helping keeping you young! but you have to say with really mean from your heart not saying because you want to impress some else (or basa basi)

and also good cause the words as saying hello as friendly to people some one you know this is also remain them that we care with them and we love them
cause they are there Right!

back to the Power of Words in stating :
“The tongue has the power of life and death”

So do not let unwhole some talk come out of your mouth but only what is help full for building other up according to their needs!

And when the last time you used the power of words to build up your spouse
with a kind word or a note of encouragament or an employee? or a coleague? or one of your kids!

People Can Change !

People can change, yes cause we are
People not only can change but People sometimes must be change …

YES! it’s true people can change

Before I’ m always forget or ignore it about the principle, the basic principle of being grown and life as a human being : Change

One popular saying that’s always struck me as particularly pity and harmful is, “People don’t change.”

I m not perfect either sometimes very often too I realize I keeping rained personality traits as being ego my self, as I use the words

“No! I cant help, I can’t change my self! “

Saying people can’t change is the same as saying people can’t learn.
When you learn something new that knowledge fundamentally changes you.
Each piece of information adds to your personal database creating
additional resources to draw on when interacting with the outside
world. We face the same temptations to engage in negative behavior,
but we also build a body of experience that tells us the reward isn’t
worth the penalty.

In a sense we are always changing and always staying the same. When I compare my self of today with my self from a few years ago or when I was kid , I observe that I’m the same but more.I’m the same in how I think and process information but experience has changed the way I interpret everything. Every day adds a new layer of character, I learning and learning,guess that what we should do and try. Learning and change!

Is weird right, I can express my self easy for anything, drawing, writing, poem and also I can easy express my self as my talk to much sometimes with friends as chat chit, but hard for me when I was kid to express the feeling as to say :

“I love you or I love you too..with words, even I do know love them. see I m not perfect!

I thought I will never change and I can’t change….

Now! everything has change
I’m very easy to express my self as express my feeling with words and
face it, if I love some one or care to people even they are not my
family, I wont haste to let them know, with words but really mean it, as I care with them…

” Aku Cinta Kamu”
“I Love You”

” Aku Sayang kamu “

” I Care about You” or

“WOW he got nice ass……… ”

OUPS sorry that’s difference express ” well cant help my bad habbit ! alright just forget it about that words.

Any way!

People do change. We make every decision for the first time with no obligation to the past. If we control anything, we control our own thoughts and behavior. If can improve anything, it should be
ourselves.

One Woman Man

It seems that Valentines Day is no longer only about romance and red roses. It is also about doggie drool and furry,affection, because some women appear to prefer hot dogs to cool guys. (wow…………….well speaking about doggie, alright! never mind LOL)

some woman even said …:

“If my dog was a man, he will be my boyfriend, because he will be one for me !”

((((((((((((((( DAMMMNNN You!!! Asshole !!! I hope You are in hell Ha! )))))))))))))
hehheheheh….. can you recognize that words? hehheheh

You would probably get mad if your woman farted around you? Damn….. They don’t always. Sometimes, it is the men. Sometimes it is both. … but I don’t think that voice of a yelling woman who upsetcause a farted. that will be weird and freak woman if their yelling with that words only because their not happy sniff their Boy friend farted.

Any way …….. let’s put way the farted and sniff (ugh…shit are you eat rubbish honey oh no hhehhe never mind is just joke )

Alright!

Women are very complex creatures. We multi task. We cry when we are happy, sad, angry, scared. We are three dimensional.
Men are simple creatures. They rarely are capable of multi tasking and just Few men can cry.

There are so many things women wish men knew, somehow telling them does not always work. It really has to be communicated in a way where he will get it.

and so many things woman have wish too and every woman have difference they own wish about man… well is fine and normal I think, wish is wish even men have they own wish too, correct or not?

I wish…

Man who are not for sale
Man who are honest sound from center to circumferance, true to the heart core
Man with consciences as steady as the needle to pole
Man who will stand for the right if the heavens totter and the earth reels
Man who can tell the truth and look the world right in the eyes
Man who neither brag nor run
Man who neither flag nor flinch
Man who can have courage with out feeling shouting it
Man in whom the courage of everlasting life runs still deep and strong
Man will know their massage and tell it
Man who know their place and fill it
Man who knows their business and attend to it
Man who know not Lie, shrink or dodge
Man who are not to lazy to work not too proud to be poor
Man who are willing to eat what they have earned and wear what they have paid for
Man who are not ashamed to say “no ” with emphasis and who are not ashamed to say “I can’t afford it!”

or just man with his word

“One Woman Man!”

how to remain A “one woman man”
does your present attitude and pattern of behavior indicate a deep resolve to remain a “One woman man”

Should a man remain committed to one women in his life time?

Woman is better….Depends on you’re integrity and feelings towards that person….yes, he should remain commited to one women so that he can enjoy the fruits of life….Absolutely, unless there is some major problem..A man has make only his wife happy, and he will enjoy life like a king……..

“hmmmmm……” ( you mean a king with out farted? ha ha ha sorry again just joke )

Well, what DO wives wish their husbands or their Boy friend knew about women? Well, I think one of the first things most woman would want man to know is that…

“One Woman Man!”

Np: well again wish is just wish… we knows there is not one can be prefect on this world, not me either.

I’M Become A Blogger As Pics with Thousand Words!

I'M Become A Blogger As Pics with Thousand Words!

Every one needs a place for self expression
some how, some where, some thing… people have they own way to do that.
ever you think about writing?
becomes a blogger or blogger your Personal ?
Interactive online diaries, online journals, personal blogs or group
blogs are integrated into the daily lives of a thousand around the world.

A Blog is like a journal on a specific topic. This is sometimes personal or not personal and …start saying :

“I’m become a blogger”

Silence your inner critic, it’s your journal about life. it is written
with your words and if you took the time to write them down they are
valuable, NO MATTER WHAT! don’t judge what you put in your blog just put
it there !

And you can break all the rule ( grammar and spelling , slank or follow
them if you prefer, it’s your choice! Either way there is no such thing
as right or wrong in blog writing. you can even use symbols, code or even
the sign words that only you know the meaning of…
( let’s say you are in mood with naughty joke, is not necessary to
mentions straight the “thing” but you can use your own sign word, even no
much people will know, but I’m sure the will follow and understand what
is mean after they read all your story your blog)

I don’t have quote or motto, but this my words and my guide as I’m
starting to write :
The clever writer is, when we can drag the readers into our write or
story, drag they mind to sense, to feel it and even to imagine our
written, it’s like a dream, you cant touch but you can feel it, so also
on your story/written , they read, they can feel it and imagine what’s
all about.

Go with the flow to express your self ( I know not much people easy to
express them self ) sometimes the emotions on our self will helping to
write too, like when people upset and anger for something, when you feel
hard to throw you anger, why don’t you try to write…even that just about
single word as a yelling…(((((((KISS MY ASS!!! ))))))) well nothing
wrong! (but later no body gonna read ha ha ha alright so just skip
this part, Ugh sorry just joke but hmmmm but in other words it’s feel good I don’t mind on that part on real thing LMOA, any way but it’s fine
fine too No problem LOL)
or even better when you feel excite ,happy or when feel in love with
some one friend even with family.

take time to tune in how you feel, do you feel like writing a lot or
simple feel like writing one word? or write and make your blog as like
pics with thousand words…

The happiness
The laugh
The wondering
The sadly
The joke
The silly thing
even the naughty thing… he he he why not!!!

when you go with the flow your blog writing comes easily and feels good.

Pick a special spot yo write, Choose the exciting Tittle your blog to
make your blog attractive.
Choose a place where you feel safe, happy and secure Go some where you feel inspired to lose your self in your journal writing.

Go wild with embellishments or keep it simple
Use stickers colored pens or fonts magazine pictures drawings or photos
to jazz up your blog. being creative with your blog will make your
writing experience more colorful.exciting and fun. Not in the mood for
fun? just want to write? No Problem! the blog is about YOU!or The blog is
about the world!

Discover your writing style all the journal writing tips in the world can only you guide you in the end you must choose your style based on what works best for you ask your self what you want ? what in your mind ? and thats what you should do.
Poetry/poem, art pic, drawing stickers, scrapbook style, doodles or even
themed it is your decision to make

Keep it fun and fulfilling,If it’s not fun and fulfilling chances are you will quit writing, so keep it fun by giving your self permission to try new ways of blog writing and keep it fulfilling by focusing on a wide range of topics or even give some fun as joke or even being silly on your
words or pics as joke .
( not just sad or bad ones but happy and exhilarating ones as well )

Write your blog, let the world sort it out. … don’t care if how many people are reading your posts as long as you are happy and …writing !

Is your primary desire in life to be satisfied or to be happy ?

Is your primary desire in life to be satisfied or to be happy ?

God has promised to supply ALL our needs, That’s what worries me ,because his idea of “NEEDS” may not square with my idea of “WANTS”

So, I took a moment my morning, Get cancer with burnt my cigarrete on my fingers ( shit that bad joke ) and thanks God for smell a cup of my coffee and my thought flying around in my quiet room.

I wonder if our need for life has something to do with our desire to have more then one days or one whole life provision at a time?

he said allowed them to pick up only one day’s provosion at a time , if they attempted more they wanna spoil.

most people problem is that their not only want “THING” and covering and of choice but also a full menu picky of choice as to what kind of want or need and covering…

so let’s make list of your idea of want or desire and what your list?

My satisfied:

~ I want a sexy man and handsome guy with big arms hehheh

~ I want to keep my apartement ( always)

~ I want my daughter with me

~ I want my job and get high sallery

~ Bla….

~ Bla…

~ and bla…

My Happiness:

~ I want a man who I love and a man who love me

~ I just want live and have a place

~ I want see good life for my daughter

~ Well I just want have a job and do something for life

~ Bla…

~ Bla…

~ and bla…

Obviously God was dealing with their greed and teaching them to trust him one day at a time, as stop to much complaning about life

well it’s hard ya…
special when I’m wake up morning, I m out off my coffee or when need it and really need it… something,something so bad….. ugh! hehheh Damn I’m out off CDM ha ha ha that even more worse ( Ok this just for my secret

I do this!

I did it my away

i did myaway