~ Making Friendship like Kids Who Love All Colors ~

Friendship and love are the two most beautiful words in any language. And I believe most of us would have experienced both in some way or the other and both that experienced we bring our heart to the friendship and love.

Ah the heart, that is where our problem to how important is upholding the truth to your self and the friendship …. honest , lie is it not?
the heart here respresents you ethical center , your intellectual center, and your CHARACTER center what you think, what is going on with your will
your perceptions of your self and to the friendship.

The condition of your heart is critical because what goes on there determines the course of your friendship even to your life.

“FRIENDSHIP FROM PURE HEART “

That is simply loving friend with no strings attached

when they stab our back

sure we sad, but we try to forgive them as giving a chance back ( I know sometimes this is not easy but…)

“If some other people were giving us a chance , Why cant we don’t?”
memperbaiki silaturahmi lebih baik dari pada memutuskan nya .

That is pure friendship from the pure heart and that is how we are to love other and our friends.

but yes, as human we are not prefect and no one, we also have limit, we don’t give back chance, back and forth a hundred time and sometimes we think to let them go, as we thought they are not ready to be friend or not happy make it friend with us.

Ever see a little girl playing with their friend?

They laugh each other, they run together, sometimes often we see they often holding hands each other when they walk or run in parks together.

They comment each other about they toys

” Look my doll have beautiful crully blonde hair…and I have beuatiful red an umbrella”
” See… I do too have beautiful a dolly with black straight hair, and I have yellow umbrella”

or they work and organize together

” How about today I will be mom and you be like a daddy!”

10 minutes they play each other
and they laugh each other
10 minutes later…
the other girl screaming ….and
the one a cried…. she run to her mom as ask plaintive

” She is bad….”

Then what the parents do?

“oh I’m sorry, but she is fine, I’m sure she doesn’t mean that, Let’s see your friend again!”

then mom drag her daughter back to her friend ask they both to handshake each other, or hug each other as forgiveness and giving back a chance each other.

” Ayo…salaman lagi, baikan lagi…..!”

and a minutes later they play again, they laugh each other again, they even forget about the pain and sad.

That is a friendship from pure heart

See from the beginning we already teaching our kid about a FRIENDSHIP FROM PURE HEART…
forgiveness..and giving some one a chance.

If kid can do that, why we can’t?
If we can teach our kid like that, why cant we teach our self ?
Yes, we are not a kid and not any more, you can say it’s difference
but we can have a heart as like a young kid, to built our friendship with young heart.

EVERYONE IS THE SAME COLOR WHEN WE TURN OFF THE LIGHTS.
Friendship is like a Rainbow with so much rich color,
making friendship like kids who love all colors

Mostly a kids they love all about color they have brave to choose a full coloring of bright color
is same as they look they own playmate or friend, they mind mostly only think.

” I want to play…”
” I’m happy to be friend…”

But when they grow up, step by step mostly
they are more choosey as they own.. more soft…gentle…smooth more calm colors as they look at someone as a friend

” I choose who I like to be my friend !”

~ FRIENDSHIP FROM A CLEAR CONSCIENCE ~
That is simply ministering to friendship out of pure motives

~ we understand what a friend/friendship wants us to do – our calling

~ We accept them as they way they are – we cant expecting them to be what we want it.

~ live in harmony as support with one other – rather than pick at each other
( when you go up I will support you, when you down and fall I will be stand with you )

~ Be sympathetic – Rather than jealousy each other

~ Love as brother/sister – rather than compete as adversaries

~ Respect – each other and their stories (the ability to hear what another is attempting to put into words with out judging) and their times.

~ Confidentiality – Not violating another secrecy
(A friend is a person whom we can trust and share our secrets, inner thoughts and consider the way to solve any problems)

~ Giving ( not wondering what they give to you…) What do you give to friend and friendship?

~ FRIENDSHIP FROM SINCAREFAITH ~

That is simply loving people without hypocrisy….

Faith and Trust should be the base and understanding is vital.

Every person has a different opinion about good friend’s behaviour. Some people prefer to have a friend who is intelligent, others choose a friend who is funny, and rest of them prefer to have a friend who is reliable. All of these three characters are important behaviour of friends, but in my opinion the reliability is the best quality of friends.
Without faith and any trust or belief in each other, the relationship between people can not last for long time.

We should make it friend and friendship as colloring rich color, Even though we come from different backgrounds, different level,
Age, color, size and appearance don’t matter to us
because we see people right through
we just wanted to say that our friend is like our sister/brother

I making a lot’s friend…
I make a friendship as colloring full color…
Some as I look them as they are my friend, but they never dream if they can be my friend.
Some as I look them as they are my friend, but they never thought they are my friend.
Some as I call friend and look them as my friend, but they are not ready to be friend.
Some as I look them as friend, even we never meet yet in real, but they are my friend.
Some as I call friend and look them as my friend, and yes they are my friend.

The question is :
Did you happy make it friend ?
Did you happy to be friend to your friend?
Did you happy to see your friend happy?

Friendship can survive without love, but still we need heart to built the friendship.

Np. The little girl on this pic, she is my friend daughter, she is good kid and she does have a Friendship from pure heart, I’m always remember, once time I catch her voice as talk with her friend, when her friends come play on out side the door of my room on noontime, then she was always saying ” No, don’t play there, let’s move other place, cause auntie Julia not wake up yet ” (heheheheh….) then other her friend ask her, “how do you know she not wake up yet ?” ” My mom say, if you don’t hear yet the music on at auntie Julia room, thats mean she still sleep!” (hehheheh ) I love this little girl , I look her as my own friend, she is beautiful and have beautiful heart.

I write this blog to remain her and her mother as they both as my friend and I miss them.

~ The Battle Fear The Battle to Fear itsSelf ~

When it come to growing into imagination my art, I often have a illusion that it can be done ONE night, that some how through certain imagination experience or the expression of the gifts.

The “process” of my art imaginations growth can be hurried up or short circuited

when I go this route, I end up with squashy, weak…strong, tough, I m fall down, I’m stand up again…if I’m fall down, I’m trying to stand up again.

If My ART are here DONE today and probably GONE tomorrow, but it will LIVE.

In other hand, I understand that the process of my maturity takes a great deal of time, energy, patience, faith and just plain living through the storm of life.

The Battle itself The battle to Your Ego

so this is not WAR WORLD, NOT end of world

The art about the Battle, The Battle of your self, The battle for your life.(we are fighter, fighter for our life and our stand )

Many of us like with a certain dread of the future
a fear that some day the bottom will fall out, a fear that plague will eventually get us!

Fear :

~ clouds our judgment
~ Paralyzes our actions
~ Cause us to delay rationalize over – spritualize
~ promotes paranoia
~ Induces us to think irrationally to loose objectivity
~ Destroy our trust in others
~ Diminishes our ability to believe. Risk.Act and to face it the problem
~ Maybe a reason we impute wrong motives to others
~ Is often the product of our pride
~ Refuse to believe God is there!

Every person will have to fear his own…. load of oppressive fault
one of the toughest battle you will conitinually face in life is with your self,Your EGO,selfish,lust, and Your anger…..

Anger usually focuses on our disappointment over occuresences of the past,The violation of our “RIGHT” frustration over how things have turned
out or lack of fulfillment over not having achieved our goal.
we either doubt God’s ability to manage our lives or we resent his sovereign intrusion into them,

Fear usually focuses on our anxious anticipatin of the future : Do we have what it takes to realize our hope and aspirations or will our lives crash in upon us?in the future will some uninvited calamity make it’s intrusion ?

Banyak dari manusia yg berpikir, mereka takut dengan musuh nya,
padahal… yang sesungguh nya musuh yang paling menakutkan sebenarnya adalah di dalam diri kita sendiri.So the only things we have to fear is fear itself!

Sometimes some people think they have an enemy, and not often too they think they need a bodyguard to protect them.well for some other case purpose, I can be understand that,like big company or country,ect..

But for a single simple person, what make you think you need some one to protect (unless, you know your self, you got so much problem or giving cost to people then, then you have reason to be scared as feel unscure as people/enemy will attach you or hurting you…so you need a protect from some one)

what make you think you have enemy?

and what make you worry and fear that would make you shit your pants?

Yes! We all have fear because we are human, I do too, ….and thats natural…..and I think all living beings have fear of one or another thing…..fear is a part of life….
Fear is something to deal with. The body demands an explanation of what has brought you to the thin edge of life of some of these places.

But the fear you should be to fear is fear it self and Ego – The Enemy Of Self.

Your speech ( hasut sini hasut sono, dan ujung2 nya cuma jadi penghianat )

Your path, your action and everything have cost!(Sebab dan Akibat)
Good Or Bad is depending back to what you have make it and giving cost to other , life and things.

is example :

You put salt on your meal…. ( Speaking that salt, Me and My daughter she love salt )

As we know salt is good, and we need that It is the sodium (ions) present in salt that the body requires in order to perform a variety of essential functions.

Salt can have a powerful influence on changing its environment
Salt when rightly applied to food can transform in from unappealing bladness into a delectable gourment experience.

But if you cant control as to much salt on your meal…and each day by day and each meal you put over salt, you are just invest leaving to further complications later in life.

it’s same as your ego, the cost what you done it was invest and creative a enemy.

Ask yourself …

1. Do you think and feel that outer life needs to deliver you “things” in order for you to be happy?

2. Do you struggle to take responsibility that you have created the aspects in your life that haven’t worked?

3. Do you blame people and situations outside of yourself when things go wrong?

4. Do you often feel needy and try to make things happen in order to feel better?

5. Do you have trouble accepting other people’s opinions and view points?

6. Do you struggle to be vulnerable and real around other people?

7. Do you believe your happiness is dependent on how other people see you or what you have? your things, your power, your bla bla…. (panjang ah males ngetik nya )

8. Do you find it difficult to encourage and grant other people compliments?

9. Do you employ competitive behaviour and feel envious and jealous of other people that may have or experience things you don’t? ( cemburu, masih bisa di mengerti, semua manusia pasti punya rasa cemburu, cuma kadar nya setiap orang berbeda, but envious (sirik) that’s bad, ampun bu penyakit tuh!)

10. Do you fear that people who love you can hurt you or control you?

11. Do you struggle to maintain peace, harmony and co-operation with people?

12. Do you have trouble trusting people and situations – and expect people and life to act in ways that are “wrong”? ( Biarin tar juga kemakan sendiri ama kata2 tulisan blog nya, Watch, soon or later she/he will fall down! ect…. ect…. )

13. Do you put on a front around other people so that they may like you? they should be like you and they should follow you?

14. Do you often look at life as “what can I get” rather than “what can I give?”

15. Do you think that you are on your own in life?

16. Do you feel defensive when confronted with issues?

17. Do you judge negative things that show up in your life and have trouble understanding the gift?

18. Have many of your problems been replaying the same themes?

19. Do you struggle to take responsibility with humility when you make a mistake?

20. Do you have hard time saying “I was wrong would you forgive me?”

Let’s be honest, we find sometimes to do what we really want, as just follow the ego,what to do, well keep in mind that, ultimate freedom in life is abilty to choose the right attitude,and because your attitude (kelakuan,sikap,tabiat) is centered in your will…and life, to invest a freedom of peace or to creative a enemy!

As my self, I’m not perfect either… YES! we all has experience make mistake, Fault,Dumb, even probably hurting some one, it’s were we do on purpose or not on purpose, as we are human that sometimes can make mistake, it’s still normal, some people can still understand
and some will forgiving. from 100, 50 people will understand, 25 will forgiviness and remember in this world not only live a bad people,even they are allot’s (probably include me ) but a good people and understanding people also allot.

~ THE BATTLE OF THE WRITER ~

Some people say, mostly (make it mark… mostly and Some ,not All …)
The word of the writer is more SHARP then a knife

How should I agree with this?

Yes or NO!

It’s true, but also it’s depending back to they own person /personal

Yes, as writer we have knowledge as easy to expression anything with words, from simply things, heavy one, funny to make it people laugh, happy to make people smile or make them learning, Good or Bad, Sad, even worst thing as SHARP then a Knife

~The thought of the writer can be gun
The words of the writer can be bullet

~The Thought of the writer can be teacher
The words of the writer can be guidance

~The thought of the writer can be world
The words of the writer can be picture…as you can see the world by they words

and more … more and more….

Yes a write is same like other artist, we need a freedom to our thought expression and a freedom to write.
But remember, the REAL writer we have rule, we have rule the above and agree to the terms and conditions as writer.

” That easy becomes a writer, with they knowledge abilty, they can judge people , shoot people with their words and bla bla….”

Naaaaaaaaaaa! hey, I’m witer Not nenek lampir!

The writer they also have they own battle self, like I said, it’s depending back to they own self, what people do not know…

The writer…
They battle self to they own words….
They Thought…
They speech…. ( Do I speech truthful? Straight forward? or misslanding?)

the writer also human being, they can be make mistake, so if there is words or my write and pic was not make some people feel not comfortable
I would like to say here ” Please forgive me..”

Np: A human being. I am one person for one moment and another the next. … In that sense yes, our ego is weak. But yes, we need a Ego too. …. but in the positive sense of enjoying the duty to which you dedicated yourself,for incite the desire of our dream and sucesss.

I’m not just writing things in shit on a toilet wall, If I am a sensitive little flower and, not heeding the warning, still writing the blog only to find something that offends people, I will never writing the blog again. To do otherwise would be stupid and my write that I am a masochistic and feeble nerd with no life.

I will write, and Still write…and Do my art….

~ ARE THE STORMS OF LIFE GETTING TO YOU ?

ARE THE STORM GETTING TO YOUR LIFE

ARE THE STORMS OF LIFE GETTING TO YOU ?

Several observations
~ The storms of life descend on the righteous and unrighteous a like
~ The person who builds they house on the word of God has a solid foundations :Rock
~ The person who does not built they house on the word of God has a shaky foundations :Sand
~ The storms come from every direction

ABOVE “The rains descended “
BELOW “Theflood came “
ALL SIDES “The winds blew and burst agains’t the house

Conclusion :

~Those who go to the trouble of HEARING and APPLYING the word of God will stand up under the storm
~ Those who refuse to litsen to obey God’s word will not stand up under storm life

You and I can count on storm in life whether we survive will depend upon the foundation we lay in God’s word HEARING and APPLIYING
the choice is our.

Life’s Storms like the disciples who were caught in a vicious gale are often :

~ “WITH OUT WARNING “~
~ ” FURIOUS “~
~” OVERWHELMING – THE WAVES SWEPT OVER THE BOAT “

When we suffer, when we feel like storm getting to our life,
with out warning, furious….over whelming the waves swept over the boat, we are tempted to doubt the notion that a loving God actively controls the universe and is compassionately involved in our world.
I have spoken with people who abandoned their faith in God when some tragic personal loss happened to them, Sometimes, it feels like all hell is breaking loose in our lives.

A woman who I know ,once was make screaming “I don’t understand. I love my husband, If God loves us, why did my husband have to die so slowly and so painfully by wreck? why God only take him? It’s not fair.

When people in doubt they run to center and screaming…and not often they thought as God wasn’t fair, as when they feel pain,feel like the storm destroy their life and wondering ” WHY ME?”

One of friend once asked me, “I don’t understand, I have been a good wife for him and loyal and I am good religious woman…and why my married….Does God care? Why do we sometimes lose everything we care about? …
“Why does a loving God permit suffering?”

People suffer, One day your life is happy and sunny. You have health and prosperity. Then BOOM! You are hit hard. Everything goes wrong. Sometimes a thunderbolt shoots from a clear sky and some terrible trouble befalls us and we just can’t intellectually apprehend how God has allowed it to happen.

surrounded as we feel our life furious and unexpected storms ,Sometimes make us think as ask our self, did God lead us into the boat? do I have not have the right to a storm free journey?

Where God is? thats God sleeping? is God indifferent? or God stretching my faith?

How we answer these questions will depend upon the object of our focus :

The storm which quaranteed nail biting , ulcers, panic or
God who will lead us to inner peace

“You will keep in perfect peace God whose mind is steadfast because be trusts in you!”

why does God allow furious overwhelming storms, with out warning?

I don’t know….

but I do know, God who will lead us to inner peace, be still and know that God is there!”

~ Face it ~

Since we still breathing we always find the problem and testing, kemana pun kita pergi dimana pun kita mencoba untuk bersembunyi dan berapa pun jumlah gigolo atau bodyguard yang kita punya, kita akan tetap berhadapan dengan masalah dan ujian.

Besar dan kecil nya masalah itu tergantung dari diri kita sendiri, dari dimana kita menempat kan diri dan memilih bagaimana kehidupan kita, dan dari AKIBAT dan SEBAB dari sesuatu yang kita lakukan dan perbuat!

Kalau kita memilih hidup dengan hanya di lingkungan small box dan masalah itu akan kemungkinan datang dari yang di sekitar box itu saja, dengan orang – orang dan dengan sesuatu bentuk atau benda yang ada di sekitar box itu saja!

As my self, I do not want life just in small box, I want see more…I want see sun in difference place, I want hunting a moon on difference place to see more and other poeple who far even maybe they are stranger for me.

I’m not say , I’m a person who daring risk or problem and I do not say my gut is bigger twice then size my body,but yes I’m a fighter, fighter for my life! again as human being I have a fear too and I have a weak side too,

I can feel hurt, when people hurting me
I can screaming… when the storm getting to my life too…”WHY ME!!!”
I can fall down too, if I walk in wrong way.

But we are not always , be hurt,fear, screaming or fall down…

There is always tomorrow when you get hurt,fall, a new day and a new sun bright coming after you face it the problem.
Our Problems Are Our Challenges in life so if you don’t face your problems no matter how big or small it is you must still face it (maka nya tuhan memberikan kita AKAL dan Pikiran dengan itu kita memulai nya…menggunakan untuk menyelesai kan setiap masalah dengan cara berpikir lebih dulu dan mengunakan akal bagaimana menyelesai kan nya)

If you don’t YOU WILL NEVER LEARN how to LIVE because life is full of problems From The day you were born And The Day Before you die……

~ ACCEPTING ~

Yes!,life has been an unpredictable experience. we have felt like we was climbing a mountain, and continually falling down a longer distance than we managed to climb.
there is a lot’s storm getting our life, you and me even cant acount how many…and how deep it was is, sometimes even was find often ourself as crying out as we battle as storm getting to our life’s

I am not a person who sweetly accepts my trials, by nature. Oh, not at all. Any time major life changes are flung at me, I have an instinct to duck. Life has held such radical and searingly painful changes, that I don’t want to try to catch a new one out of the blue. I fear change. So normally I withdraw, miss, and it falls at my feet, or hits me in the head.

But each toss is a test. Each toss is a challenge. Sometimes it just hits me like a ball that I cannot see in a school game. Sometimes it keeps coming back at me until I do catch it, and am forced to deal with it.

Sometimes also it’s unfair, when people have a problem as the storm getting their life, some people they don’t helping to support their mental but just judging. ( Udah jatuh ketimpa tangga lagi )

“That his/her KARMA !”
( Tuh Karma…)

Well….WHO THE HELL YOU ARE?
and WHAT GOD NAME ARE YOU? HA!

I’m not say I do not believe with Karma, but we cant just judge every problem as our karma.
God will bring you to judgment including every hidden thing whether it’s good or evil.for we will all stand before God judgment seat…

If we had no tests in life, how would we know we were achieving what we were supposed to be? How can we know anyway? It must be in the way we face and endure them. … The greatest joy of all we can imagine, will be God’s pleasure in us.

There is a reason behind any testing, whether small, or enormous. Many times we are not given this reason, nor should we think we should be. God is control of the situation, God knows the whole picture. We do not. Even if we don’t know the reason for testing until we gone, we can be certain that there is one. We can know absolutely, that God works all trial for good.

I have even thought that I might not have this trust, if I had never known a trial. Where would I have learned it, if not through going to my Saviour in brokenness?

If you are struggling with a difficult situation are the storm getting your life :

~ Realize you are not alone, other people have similiar experinces, most important remember that God with you.

~ Find a few trusted friend to share your concerns pain.

~ If you know , see and hear other people judge you ( Karma ) asking God to forgiveness them.

~ Refuse to quilty or ashamed or unworthy as you thought it’s karma. I don’t say I do not believe with karma.but
Don’t let your karma lay quilty upon you when know you served God with intergrity.

~ Keep going and Faith , wait and pray.

~ Patience and Hope.

Np : I know is not easy, even me sometimes I just run to the center and screaming “WHY ME!”
but we can try to learn to listen to Accept, we becomes obedient (which in LATIN means “ACCEPTING”)
So today, we will choose to delight in God unconditional love and once again take baby steps in learning how to let go, relax and allow your spirit free access to the depths of our being.

to instantly lift our heart up to God in surrender , May each step, each awareness, each encounter and each challange , each testing , each problem , be queitly giving over to God

Dengan berserah diri ….
Aku kembalikan semua nya kepada mu
Engkau yang memberikan….
Engkau pula yang akan mengambil nya kembali

Art not to be taught, but Natural Expression to be Encouraged

When I’m write my blog, my mind race to :

~ Is there an example to them to follow?
~ Is there a wrong to avoid ?
~ Is there a promise to claim ?
~ Is there a command to obey ?
~ Is there a conditions to meet ?
~ Is there a verse to memorize ?
~ Is there an error to mark?
~ Is there a challange to face ?

Is also same as to my ART, when I was teaching a Children for class tutor art painting.
I teaching them not just a basic how to mixed a color, but the most important what we should do, I teach them, to challenge to explore out they imagination.

I remember one of the parent my student, before she pick up her son finished tutor art on my place was ask me…

“Why you let my son drawing a bajaj (small transpotation in Indonesia) was on top the PLAZA INDONESIA and why sky is black? “
or

“Ugh look after 2 month learning, she even don’t know how to drawing good about chicken, her line drawing still bend over here bend over there, thats my daughter drawing a chicken or dragon?” ( hehhehe…I’m sorry…)

Yes, not all people will understand about the art, special the art imagination, I understand that, and some of parents who was sent they own kid to class of painting, sometimes they just excepting after 2 or 3 month learn the painting, they kid will come up as good as the master of peace.
but the most important to teaching a kid on art class is not about to made them as a copy AFANDI or PICASSO or other name of master peace.
but beside learn teaching about the color ect ect…teach them as help them to explore out they imagination.

sure there is not Bajaj on top plaza Indonesia, but we never know what will be on another 10 or 20 year later!
I told a kid, bajaj is in road,but is oke, if they like to imagine as bajaj right now as on top the building.

when kid coloring a sky as black…is fine, that what they imagine probably now or today sky is black, but yes I tell them as showing them another picture, if sky is blue, or can be white as sunny day, or can be coloring look sometimes as a rainbow comming.

Art not to be taught, but Natural Expression to be Encouraged.

so now back to my art imagination as some people probably think, “What a freak?” yes oke its look freak, but I don’t mean trying to freak any one. it’s just ART! the thought and the imagine how is about the fear as fear battle to our self, the feel as I thought as feel pain and struggle as we battle when the storm getting to our life. so this just how I’m expression the feel with my imagination as on ART.

and ever artist they have they own way difference to experssion they art on they drawing on the same tittle or semilar thought as other artist.

so here, some example, when I was starting creative my art imagination, as FREEHAND PAINTING with Photoshop.

For this tutorial I decided to paint freehand with Adobe Photoshop, rather than my usual method of scanning in image (Pic) and using the smudge tool to get the blending effect.
The whole process was done on the fly is same as like drawing pic on painting with blank canvas,I start with look other pic or image for my subjek art… Oke I beggining with a mountain rock pic as I searching in google.

canvas is as Layer ,I went with a paint toll, adjusments colors and brightness style to give it a fresher, more lively look, then end with blurr tool and smudge tools to make is smooth the image/picture, and for some pic I use style wind effect to make it chain or the wheel image like flashing.

This method took a bit longer to complete as opposed to my usual way of doing things, but the end result has a lot more punch to it.

The Tools and Picture I use for my ART Imagination

Np: Who knows will know our ability and tallented IF not OUR SELF, so Don’t give up… I’M NOT!