~ Making Friendship like Kids Who Love All Colors ~

Friendship and love are the two most beautiful words in any language. And I believe most of us would have experienced both in some way or the other and both that experienced we bring our heart to the friendship and love.

Ah the heart, that is where our problem to how important is upholding the truth to your self and the friendship …. honest , lie is it not?
the heart here respresents you ethical center , your intellectual center, and your CHARACTER center what you think, what is going on with your will
your perceptions of your self and to the friendship.

The condition of your heart is critical because what goes on there determines the course of your friendship even to your life.

“FRIENDSHIP FROM PURE HEART “

That is simply loving friend with no strings attached

when they stab our back

sure we sad, but we try to forgive them as giving a chance back ( I know sometimes this is not easy but…)

“If some other people were giving us a chance , Why cant we don’t?”
memperbaiki silaturahmi lebih baik dari pada memutuskan nya .

That is pure friendship from the pure heart and that is how we are to love other and our friends.

but yes, as human we are not prefect and no one, we also have limit, we don’t give back chance, back and forth a hundred time and sometimes we think to let them go, as we thought they are not ready to be friend or not happy make it friend with us.

Ever see a little girl playing with their friend?

They laugh each other, they run together, sometimes often we see they often holding hands each other when they walk or run in parks together.

They comment each other about they toys

” Look my doll have beautiful crully blonde hair…and I have beuatiful red an umbrella”
” See… I do too have beautiful a dolly with black straight hair, and I have yellow umbrella”

or they work and organize together

” How about today I will be mom and you be like a daddy!”

10 minutes they play each other
and they laugh each other
10 minutes later…
the other girl screaming ….and
the one a cried…. she run to her mom as ask plaintive

” She is bad….”

Then what the parents do?

“oh I’m sorry, but she is fine, I’m sure she doesn’t mean that, Let’s see your friend again!”

then mom drag her daughter back to her friend ask they both to handshake each other, or hug each other as forgiveness and giving back a chance each other.

” Ayo…salaman lagi, baikan lagi…..!”

and a minutes later they play again, they laugh each other again, they even forget about the pain and sad.

That is a friendship from pure heart

See from the beginning we already teaching our kid about a FRIENDSHIP FROM PURE HEART…
forgiveness..and giving some one a chance.

If kid can do that, why we can’t?
If we can teach our kid like that, why cant we teach our self ?
Yes, we are not a kid and not any more, you can say it’s difference
but we can have a heart as like a young kid, to built our friendship with young heart.

EVERYONE IS THE SAME COLOR WHEN WE TURN OFF THE LIGHTS.
Friendship is like a Rainbow with so much rich color,
making friendship like kids who love all colors

Mostly a kids they love all about color they have brave to choose a full coloring of bright color
is same as they look they own playmate or friend, they mind mostly only think.

” I want to play…”
” I’m happy to be friend…”

But when they grow up, step by step mostly
they are more choosey as they own.. more soft…gentle…smooth more calm colors as they look at someone as a friend

” I choose who I like to be my friend !”

~ FRIENDSHIP FROM A CLEAR CONSCIENCE ~
That is simply ministering to friendship out of pure motives

~ we understand what a friend/friendship wants us to do – our calling

~ We accept them as they way they are – we cant expecting them to be what we want it.

~ live in harmony as support with one other – rather than pick at each other
( when you go up I will support you, when you down and fall I will be stand with you )

~ Be sympathetic – Rather than jealousy each other

~ Love as brother/sister – rather than compete as adversaries

~ Respect – each other and their stories (the ability to hear what another is attempting to put into words with out judging) and their times.

~ Confidentiality – Not violating another secrecy
(A friend is a person whom we can trust and share our secrets, inner thoughts and consider the way to solve any problems)

~ Giving ( not wondering what they give to you…) What do you give to friend and friendship?

~ FRIENDSHIP FROM SINCAREFAITH ~

That is simply loving people without hypocrisy….

Faith and Trust should be the base and understanding is vital.

Every person has a different opinion about good friend’s behaviour. Some people prefer to have a friend who is intelligent, others choose a friend who is funny, and rest of them prefer to have a friend who is reliable. All of these three characters are important behaviour of friends, but in my opinion the reliability is the best quality of friends.
Without faith and any trust or belief in each other, the relationship between people can not last for long time.

We should make it friend and friendship as colloring rich color, Even though we come from different backgrounds, different level,
Age, color, size and appearance don’t matter to us
because we see people right through
we just wanted to say that our friend is like our sister/brother

I making a lot’s friend…
I make a friendship as colloring full color…
Some as I look them as they are my friend, but they never dream if they can be my friend.
Some as I look them as they are my friend, but they never thought they are my friend.
Some as I call friend and look them as my friend, but they are not ready to be friend.
Some as I look them as friend, even we never meet yet in real, but they are my friend.
Some as I call friend and look them as my friend, and yes they are my friend.

The question is :
Did you happy make it friend ?
Did you happy to be friend to your friend?
Did you happy to see your friend happy?

Friendship can survive without love, but still we need heart to built the friendship.

Np. The little girl on this pic, she is my friend daughter, she is good kid and she does have a Friendship from pure heart, I’m always remember, once time I catch her voice as talk with her friend, when her friends come play on out side the door of my room on noontime, then she was always saying ” No, don’t play there, let’s move other place, cause auntie Julia not wake up yet ” (heheheheh….) then other her friend ask her, “how do you know she not wake up yet ?” ” My mom say, if you don’t hear yet the music on at auntie Julia room, thats mean she still sleep!” (hehheheh ) I love this little girl , I look her as my own friend, she is beautiful and have beautiful heart.

I write this blog to remain her and her mother as they both as my friend and I miss them.