~ CHOOSING BETWEEN THE WAYA OF OUR THINK OR THE WAYS OF OUR NEED ~

A particular sporting goods company only hires salesmen who are six feet or more in height ( it’s make sense?)

But if you put a motive look and appreance at people more important for your relationship that’s unthinkable.

As I write my mind races to (thought ) “BROKENESS” are being used of God to IMPACT some of the toughes on the (earth) relationship with appearance is more important then…quality and personality.

Brokenness is the product of a person who has come to face to face with….

~ Look down on others as Compare them selves with other and feel deserving of honor

~ Don’t think they have anything to repent of

~ Wait for other to come and ask for forgiveness and Are Quik to blame others
~ Are defensive when critized

~ Are wounded when others are promoted and they are over looked

~ Claim their Right

~ Can’t accept personal responsibility

~ Desire to be served

UNBROKENESS

~ Accepting indifference

~ Are willing to be open /transparent with others

~ Are Quick to admit failure and to seek forgiveness

~ Are humbled by how much they have to learn

~ Rejoice when others are lifted up

~ Are willing to stand to the right to be rights

~ Can see where they were wrong

~ Desire to promote and comment others

From the second floor of my house, I m looking out over the balcony on early afternoon as the sun was almost disappear it’s way through the clouds, in my writing on afternoon I was struck with the commen and my wondering….

What a difference between taller and shorter when is come to relationship?

When in the dark
we will all same color…

When in lay in bed
we will be same size…

WHAT? are you excepting a more taller so he/her legs more longger so can make full on side of your bed or even longger so the feet can hang over down to side a bed?

OMG!!!

Have spoil fun with giraffe then !

IMPACT! isn’t the size effect we are to have with relationship but the IMPACT is to be primarily through the power of the quality and personality.

Bigger is useless if they don’t have good quality
Smaller even worse if they don’t have good quality

Look like when you buy a chocolate at store, there are many look so delicus , very tempting smell ( Now I’m driping my saliva while write and imagine that hehhehe grab me a tissyu plz hhehhehh )

Not only the smell of chocolate who will teasing your nose, but the package and the size also will tempting us, correct or not?well that’s company creative talented to try make a produsen happy with a lot’s of choosing

Sure when our eyes gaze to the bigger size…we will knock to looked at that one first ( for other case I’m not denying ) to comper.

Then you will pick up one , and probably you will say ;

” Oh my, longger…Bigger…Oh yes Smell good …Uhhhhh…..Uhhhhh….”
We felt really aroused, it went deeper and deeper the smell teasing the nose, we began getting really excited and we began to moan…..Ohh yeah……our nose began to groan, a bit going up…. , again a bit harder up the smell obsess the nose, our mouth start waters,the teasing smell chocolate was erotic, now seriously we talking about chocolate right?

And mean time your hand while busy with feeling, sense that size and even weighing, then the other hand checking a smaller package of chocolate, even we see already the package was smaller , sometimes our brain still wondering as sending message to our nose to smelling the chocolate flavour.

“oooooh Yes…this one also smell good hmmmm….” ( Sweet smell across my nose,heart pumping hard, your blood start run fast goes to your head and sending massage to your brain,,,for wondering)

“How much this…?”

When you check the price a smaller package of the chocolate….
Your heart even pumping more harder and your brain not just giving or sending message but directly to Yelling hehheheh


“Damn!!!! this company, trying to rape my wallet? or what?”

SMALLER BUT EXPENSIVE….( compare to other big package chocolate)
That’s because the quality,the answer is Quality of the product.

I don’t say Taller isn’t Good
I don’t say Bigger isn’t Good
I don’t say a smaller always good either.

Besar atau tinggi juga percuma kalau isinya kosong

So …if you tend to buy a chocolate when it’s comes to maintaining relationship standards why not CAREFULLLY consinder the Quality is the best rather then a package or size.

Quality is more longger, Not easy ruin by the age
ever hear some people give comment

“he is old man but he got quality man!”
“She is old lady but she have a huge quality…….

~ Choosing the ways of our think ~

Freedom of the choice how we love it ,It’s true… we have a freedom to choice our need or our think, even for our words to spelling or to expression our self to other people , Now I m coming with my write about one of guy who left words on his wall ( brokenness)

” EVEN WE DON’T HAVE MONEY WE STILL CAN HAVE TALL WOMAN ” Well very very pessimist motto!
is like a patriot when they when to war

” DON’t GIVE UP, even we don’t have bullet we still can shoot enmy with our gun!”

How is this possible ?

The Question is :

” How you shoot them if your Gun doesn’t have a BULLET?”

You mean you can used your flash fart or your balls, as trade for your empty bullet for fire your gun?

The patriot when they say don’t have bullet can still shoot enemy, probably they use a second tool, as knife or even maybe ROCK

O..oh oh… hope you don’t think a rock is second a choose to have a tall woman

If you say Not then what?

BY MAGIC WORDS?

” Oh sweety you got sexy long leg ( GUBRAX!!!!! she fall down then when she wake up, Oh oh I m fall in love with you )

Or stand BY LUCKY?

Well in this word as luck, I respect to people who believe with lucky, as we are human, we have a freedom to what we believe indifference but as my self , I don’t believe with luck, but I do believe with miracle, miracle is come from God.lucky is other second words as something you excepting coming good as you don’t do anything… it’s should be not call luck but is lazy.

Back again to the Quality

“With our QUALITY we can have a chance to have a taller and even any kind of side of woman, even we don’t have money!”

That’s is the good motto ; ….110% I Agree!

And remember …Like it or Not
woman/girl also have a freedom of choice how they love it!

Some woman like a man/guy
with gun with a lot bullet

Some woman like a man/guy
with gun with out bullet
but they have a quality and good personality

Some even like a man/guy
NO GUN but got a plenty of bullet

and some…woman
they have own special choose.

~ Choosing the ways of our need ~

“EVEN WE DON’T HAVE MONEY,WE STILL HAVE A RIGHT TO HAVE AND DATE A TALLER AND SEXY GIRLS” ( Claim To Right ) “Oh yeah!!! You will, You Should, I Support you on this words!”

Every one , You and I, we all have a right and deserve

I have a right and deserve to have a sexy man with big shoulder, strong arms, nice ass, big tank, ( is that to much?) never mind.

Let’s back a little bit to oldest my blog

When some people was wondering and DOUBT about my knowledge about my ART and my ability was an negative thought …..bla..bla…(next time maybe my last name will change as bla bla..)

like other human being , I was run to the circles screaming and shout ..CLAIM to my RIGHT

” I HAVE MY RIGHT! THEY CAN’T DO THAT TO ME!”

We don’t have to prove or Claim to our right to any one, BUT the best way is we can STAND in our right.

I work hard, Learning, TRYING, and Faith … Do because of me

Let’s imagine our RIGHT is like FLAG

So the flag, either is cheap G.string,Expensive G.string,Ugly boxer or Cute Boxer ( ugh is that mean cute as got window in middle ? QUIET Julia!!!..Oke no comment on this)in other words about all those , whatever your background, level, low , high,Color and race we all have a right.

Then we need our flag stand.

As this, used your self to stand for your flag and your flag is depending to your self, when fall down, you need to stand up again…( you try hard, grab a chance the best you can and try and faith ) if you not be bother, then let’s just fall down…IGNORE IT.

Then we need a wind
to support our flag to FLAUNT

~ Personalty

~ Quality

~ Attitude

~ more and more …

Now your motto with your RIGHT will be 110% work good.

“Without money, we still have right to date Tall sexy girls”

Now,Reminds me of my old friend, some woman who I know has inner beauty inside, she is beautiful , smart, taller enough, and her boy friend excuse me on this I’m not trying to judge people appearance, he is short, Ok then I m sorry…let’s say just ugly as most her friends will wondering

Why she stick with him? hmmmm he even not kind guy who have “things” to make his woman happy ( CLING2 and BLING2)

I ask her,

she say :

“You know.. you could meet someone, and first time meet, you not attracted to person, but after sometimes of that persons company, you become more and more attracted to him/her.. Because, you got to know the person from inside… (personality) and as say, beauty is from within out”

“The one thing I really like about him, beside he got good personality, he is kind of guy , who can easy make living in any place even that’s not big thing“

Quality doesn’t mean about a person who can make a billion money.

So that’s one of quality from other example quality and every one has a difference view about the quality people and every woman/man has a difference view about the quality of the criteria their partner, and some people even makes a numb about the quality it should take as the value to their partner.

Yes, its true in reality, the first thing we look for is the looks. we always looking for a partner who is beautiful and hot.

” Whats wrong with him? he is sexy, wow 6 pack bo, handsome man… I see you was seem happy and proud when out with him to clubbing?”

“Yeah he only good for being friend, but he is not core shaker!”

If only go for appearance, don’t you think it would become boring after a while, if the person has no personality and quality to keep you interested ?

It is certainly nice to keep your appearance up but what would looking good do you if you couldn’t carry on a conversation. Personality and quality is greatly important and as I mentioned it is always good to keep up your
appearance to what you like.

Building of quality and personality in a relationship will improve the connection and deep love you have with your partner. Many people are unsure how to build the quality and personality and there are misconceptions about it as well

1. We want you to APPROACH them with intergrity… that is :

~ We don’t want you come with a hidden agenda

~ We do want you to respect us as accepting who we are , SHORT, TALLER …BIG…SKINNY

2. We want to be able to TRUST you and feel safe with you on relationship
( It’s same as you buy chocolate, if you don’t trust the comany made the chocolate , you wont buy that )

~ Don’t violate their confidence
~ Demonstrate compassion and empathy at their anguish and pain ( this call CURHAT — Listening as we know most all the time, relationship is starting with sharing, happiness, story even pain )

3. WE want a shared purpose for the relationship mutually agree as to the direction the relations should take.

~ Friendship/relationship and mutual accountability…..

You know, sometimes people just want say anything, anything to expression either they feel or just the way they like to expose how is the feeling inside of them, it’s fine sometimes is better we let it out rather than you keep inside your self….

Again I seen on another one of guy putting a words on his wall ( with other language) as saying :

” I CALLED MY SELF TO FISH FOR MEAN “
” Woman/girl is like a fish , we just need big decoys, then we can catch them easy!”

Ugh….Ugh….
Well MR.FISHERMAN…. I would like to say Nah, I’m disagree for some reason not! but Ok, I’m type of woman who open minded person I DO, (sometimes hehehhe… come on, I cant be prefect I can be negative too sometimes, but I’m always try dealing with my positive way ) I would take those words on top my table as positive way.

” Woman/girl is like a fish , we just need big decoys, then we can catch them very easy!”

I guess the answer (DECOYS) all depends upon whom you been looking (Catching)

to supply your daily need?
to supply they daily need?

to supply your daily think ?
to supply they daily think ?

or both what they need or what they think ?

Did you follow?

let’s talking about the FISH and MR.FISHERMAN.

My father he is not fisherman catch fish, but he does enjoying fishing, and being couple years many people around call him as “Pak ikan” , since his taking care all the fisherman and the ships of fisherman around area our leave (actually big area but is not necessary to mentions here,never mind)

He is not fisherman but he is understand about fisherman.

He say, “Pemancing sejati mereka tidak hanya tahu tentang developed fishing strategis and tactics tapi mereka juga tahu kapan dan waktu yang tepat untuk memancing”

Fisherman are characterized by singleness of purpose they are focused and concentrated on the task at hand (talented and quality). (so sebesar apapun your DECOY, jika kamu tidak focused and concentrated at your hand… you probably will miss it )

True fisherman don’t use line “you should have seen the one that got away” they with out commenting just hold up their full stringers like wise, fishers of man don’t have any excuse ( have right) or empty words ( not quality )

The approached the fishing is not only the point of the fisherman but also from the point of view of the fish.

The basics :

~ How do fish view the world?
~ How do woman view a man ?

~ How does the fisherman appear to the fish?
~ How does a man appear to the woman ?

~ what do fish eat and when?
What do woman need ( even you got big DECOY not all woman will agree as to need that )and when?the relationship be able and available ?

These are all good things to know

“Fisherman ” were many , The Fish where plentiful BUT the right fisher were few!

The right fisherman are people of knowledge and skill
they know the terrain of the stream and where fish like to hide out and what they like to feed on

Like wise fishers know the woman live in and the things they are being attracted to…

The info here is not a TUTOR, it is some of common thought of woman ( I say ME ). There is no such thing as a magic fishing hole or a magic decoy, I don’t care what other fisherman claim. There is nothing too complicated about fishing. As long as you learn the basics, experience will teach you the rest. There are no guarantees you will catch fish every day, but the more you fish right, the better fisherman you will become.
“NO BULL HERE!”

now….

“HAPPY FISHING !”

Np. Let’s take a moment Right now GO over to mirror and look at the unique individual whom God has beautiful crafted WOW! created in God image.
Try imagine the billions of DNA that have singly been arranged in accordance with God perfect plan , Because God delighted in creating YOU just as YOU are, there is NO ONE quite like you in all the universe

So Taller, Big, Shooter , Skinny… all is God Creating , accepting as we are as thanks to him.