~ Making Friendship like Kids Who Love All Colors ~

Friendship and love are the two most beautiful words in any language. And I believe most of us would have experienced both in some way or the other and both that experienced we bring our heart to the friendship and love.

Ah the heart, that is where our problem to how important is upholding the truth to your self and the friendship …. honest , lie is it not?
the heart here respresents you ethical center , your intellectual center, and your CHARACTER center what you think, what is going on with your will
your perceptions of your self and to the friendship.

The condition of your heart is critical because what goes on there determines the course of your friendship even to your life.

“FRIENDSHIP FROM PURE HEART “

That is simply loving friend with no strings attached

when they stab our back

sure we sad, but we try to forgive them as giving a chance back ( I know sometimes this is not easy but…)

“If some other people were giving us a chance , Why cant we don’t?”
memperbaiki silaturahmi lebih baik dari pada memutuskan nya .

That is pure friendship from the pure heart and that is how we are to love other and our friends.

but yes, as human we are not prefect and no one, we also have limit, we don’t give back chance, back and forth a hundred time and sometimes we think to let them go, as we thought they are not ready to be friend or not happy make it friend with us.

Ever see a little girl playing with their friend?

They laugh each other, they run together, sometimes often we see they often holding hands each other when they walk or run in parks together.

They comment each other about they toys

” Look my doll have beautiful crully blonde hair…and I have beuatiful red an umbrella”
” See… I do too have beautiful a dolly with black straight hair, and I have yellow umbrella”

or they work and organize together

” How about today I will be mom and you be like a daddy!”

10 minutes they play each other
and they laugh each other
10 minutes later…
the other girl screaming ….and
the one a cried…. she run to her mom as ask plaintive

” She is bad….”

Then what the parents do?

“oh I’m sorry, but she is fine, I’m sure she doesn’t mean that, Let’s see your friend again!”

then mom drag her daughter back to her friend ask they both to handshake each other, or hug each other as forgiveness and giving back a chance each other.

” Ayo…salaman lagi, baikan lagi…..!”

and a minutes later they play again, they laugh each other again, they even forget about the pain and sad.

That is a friendship from pure heart

See from the beginning we already teaching our kid about a FRIENDSHIP FROM PURE HEART…
forgiveness..and giving some one a chance.

If kid can do that, why we can’t?
If we can teach our kid like that, why cant we teach our self ?
Yes, we are not a kid and not any more, you can say it’s difference
but we can have a heart as like a young kid, to built our friendship with young heart.

EVERYONE IS THE SAME COLOR WHEN WE TURN OFF THE LIGHTS.
Friendship is like a Rainbow with so much rich color,
making friendship like kids who love all colors

Mostly a kids they love all about color they have brave to choose a full coloring of bright color
is same as they look they own playmate or friend, they mind mostly only think.

” I want to play…”
” I’m happy to be friend…”

But when they grow up, step by step mostly
they are more choosey as they own.. more soft…gentle…smooth more calm colors as they look at someone as a friend

” I choose who I like to be my friend !”

~ FRIENDSHIP FROM A CLEAR CONSCIENCE ~
That is simply ministering to friendship out of pure motives

~ we understand what a friend/friendship wants us to do – our calling

~ We accept them as they way they are – we cant expecting them to be what we want it.

~ live in harmony as support with one other – rather than pick at each other
( when you go up I will support you, when you down and fall I will be stand with you )

~ Be sympathetic – Rather than jealousy each other

~ Love as brother/sister – rather than compete as adversaries

~ Respect – each other and their stories (the ability to hear what another is attempting to put into words with out judging) and their times.

~ Confidentiality – Not violating another secrecy
(A friend is a person whom we can trust and share our secrets, inner thoughts and consider the way to solve any problems)

~ Giving ( not wondering what they give to you…) What do you give to friend and friendship?

~ FRIENDSHIP FROM SINCAREFAITH ~

That is simply loving people without hypocrisy….

Faith and Trust should be the base and understanding is vital.

Every person has a different opinion about good friend’s behaviour. Some people prefer to have a friend who is intelligent, others choose a friend who is funny, and rest of them prefer to have a friend who is reliable. All of these three characters are important behaviour of friends, but in my opinion the reliability is the best quality of friends.
Without faith and any trust or belief in each other, the relationship between people can not last for long time.

We should make it friend and friendship as colloring rich color, Even though we come from different backgrounds, different level,
Age, color, size and appearance don’t matter to us
because we see people right through
we just wanted to say that our friend is like our sister/brother

I making a lot’s friend…
I make a friendship as colloring full color…
Some as I look them as they are my friend, but they never dream if they can be my friend.
Some as I look them as they are my friend, but they never thought they are my friend.
Some as I call friend and look them as my friend, but they are not ready to be friend.
Some as I look them as friend, even we never meet yet in real, but they are my friend.
Some as I call friend and look them as my friend, and yes they are my friend.

The question is :
Did you happy make it friend ?
Did you happy to be friend to your friend?
Did you happy to see your friend happy?

Friendship can survive without love, but still we need heart to built the friendship.

Np. The little girl on this pic, she is my friend daughter, she is good kid and she does have a Friendship from pure heart, I’m always remember, once time I catch her voice as talk with her friend, when her friends come play on out side the door of my room on noontime, then she was always saying ” No, don’t play there, let’s move other place, cause auntie Julia not wake up yet ” (heheheheh….) then other her friend ask her, “how do you know she not wake up yet ?” ” My mom say, if you don’t hear yet the music on at auntie Julia room, thats mean she still sleep!” (hehheheh ) I love this little girl , I look her as my own friend, she is beautiful and have beautiful heart.

I write this blog to remain her and her mother as they both as my friend and I miss them.

~On Caring enough to comfront ~

A years ago, my self and friend spent the evening in the home of couple who were faith as made commited relationship with guy as “ FORK LOVE”

fork love

( in other words , fill each other and tolerate each other with out commited married and they don’t even live together )

while backing the car out of their drive way ,I commented to her that I felt there was something a miss in that kind of relationship.

” They fine …. Don’t worry, I ‘m stick with that kind of LTR too

I’m quiet for moment…

then I second guessed my self with
“well, Yes! I could be wrong….it’s just an impression , beside we shouldn’t meddle in other people’s lives” soon we were home and the thought dismissed

1 years later the couple was broke up , the culmination of year of deep scated but well the track fork love problem ,The girl and her thought were left devasteted and desolate as singging with her self pitty

“ F#*$ …they will rip your heart from your ass!!” but I’m thinking something other rip

Yupiiee ass ha!

then after they bored , they just stand with their flag as saying
” I just want be friend with you!”

And recently, I was on phone with a friend who spoke about her crumbled fork love after 6 month process!
rarerly are harsh words uttered between them, the couple functions clock – like efficiency but slowly almost imperceptibly, they both are moving emotionally into ” MEAL” bored orbits

the gentle touch, the tender word, the fill each other and the tolerante…..
the lingering together over coffee Gone!
even the style rip from the ass Gone! damn that’s to much ok that’s not include the story , excuse me….

over the couple months I remember thinking ” she is doing all the right stuff but something is wrong at the core “

“Well fill each other and we tolerate each other “
“tolerate and fill each other ? Tell me, has your relationship slipped to the tole ration commited level?
gone stale like cold potatoes?
perhaps what you thought you were getting in a mate? and what you end up with are not the same?
perchance that’s the diffirence in relationship between infatuation as fork love and true love

“The correct fork to use with salad is……
The correct fork to use with the steak is….
even both same reason use for eating but they have difference use it…”

Now forget the story…and forget about being rip on ass ( am I say that?)

The question I must ask my self when faced with friends, who may be in trouble is

” Do I care enough to confront them ?”

or am I more worried about their rejection of me?
about being wrong ? or about getting to involved?
or they gonna say ” who the hell are you , this is my life!”

The opposited of love may not be hate but indifference therefore, when I choose to not comfront a brother who MAY be in trouble it’s possible thats simply do not care…..
at least enough to confront?

that kind of INDIFFERENCE is not evidence of calvary love

How Big is Your Gun ?

how big is your gun?

I cant possibly look as old in real life as I do in the photos I see, lack of sleep or not , whether I am depressed or not ,
when I look in the mirror, the voice in my head says proudly ” well… not to bad for my age !” ( hmmm…. big head ya LOL )
My closer 40 something seem to be not show up, and some people told me recently.
” hey baby you will never be as old as you look!” hmmmm alright, suddenly I feel enjoying get liking LOL)

Ok forget the beauty, macho thing, six pack and how good look my look as closer to 40,
let’s cut through all the smoke and mirrors and talk about the real of sex, to be honest, it’s a place of size – both to the relationship and body.

If you ask a woman ” Does size matter?” you to tend to get generic answer, some A VERY LOUD SAY YES!!! ( Ok come down girl LOL alright we heared that ) and while other say No, and the rest just don’t care.

so….. which is it?

A few days ago I met my old friends school as at my family party on my parents house,
so during my afternoon party family and with her situation in mind,she share her worry said the wheel were coming off her personal and on her married life, as she struggles to juggle all the colors in the air her married life.
she said seemed to confused of what she want it? and what she need? and what make her happy…so her upset rush to keep up with the rest of the pack drama the color of her bed.( am I make confused with all those words? I m sure LOL but thats the point ha ha ha nah Joke )
now I come accros to size matter or not matter encounter chat chit with 2 of my friend a married woman.
“where we did we go wrong?”
isn’t that the question you are asking your self if you have offspring who are giving you fits!

“he got huge……. he got…., he got …” alright enough enough LOL later make me dizzy try to looking LMOA

then while my to pear ears be loyal listening my friend talk and other side my head was fly back to a years ago!
I remember reviewing the story from other some womans and 2 other my best friend about “big is not always the right side or fit with woman!So maybe a better say is: sure can fit but doesn’t mean always make happy.

Let’s start over again… as woman thought and they joke sometimes…

The first time most woman meet with a man, most they talk about how he handel his money and about his sex!
there is nasty little rummor circulating joke that some woman say :

Big feet big his gun
Big his thumb big his gun
Big his nose big his gun
some even say big arms big his gun…….. oh mama miaaaaaaaaa….. baby hold on there! lol
DAMN!!! So do woman have to watch all that attitudde on part body of man?

Are we?

hey, let’s slap back the question on me! How’s me? ha ha ha…. I could be honest, ugh! sometimes just for my human naughty curios LOL )

The question about size matter or not has been around…. well, since size… ( ah I m to young to mention that word lol but I can screaming loader to say that )! But The Broth as are wondering why you have doubts when the answers have already been given. If some women say it matters to them, then it probably does. Others who say it doesn’t matter, will likely have no reason to be dishonest.
But
The questions allong back to the man
as they most man thinking do woman need big gun?

Keep in mind that all women are different. its the truth some people care about size and some dont but its the feeling thet you get from the person that ultimatly matters,as long as youre being honest with things all is well

Women are typically more concerned about how good you make them feel — no matter your size.

( ah! is that make you better? ………… )

New friend, New Things and New Colors

The most sexy Boy friend are those who knows to make you smile with simple conversation and drive you wild with their touch… ( yeah love this part LOL)
The most relaxed meals are those that are easy to prepare, simple to serve and shared with friends and family.
The most good friendship are those who can cherr up and support each other, and fill the friendship with trust and respect.

I had Lunch with new friend, couple days ago, Great food, good times and a lovely conversations.

well, new friend…
new conversations,
new things,
new taste,
new colors too….

Friendships can be tough sometimes. You may be making new friends while still trying to keep old friends. It can also be hard to know what to do when you don’t agree with a friend.

“yah I think the black one is sexy”

“well the white one more hot”

“Umm, I think 10 is uh…”

“ah Come on !!! bigger is better!”

So, any way
Keep in mind, you can have a good friendship and still fight sometimes.

O-La-La-Christmas

O-La-La Christmas

 

Christmas Poem For My Friends

Christmas season fills our hearts with joy
Bright, happy days bring special kinds of pleasure.

We are wrapped in the excitement of it all
The sights, the sounds, the smells and the tastes we treasure.

Yet when we have some quiet time to think
About our finest blessings all year through,

We focus on our Friends,
And appreciate the gift of knowing you!

Merry Christmas to All My Friends

O-La-La-christmas

Play Hard – Work Hard ( And Sleep Well LOL )

Dancer Bazar

Play Hard – Work Hard ( and Sleep Well LOL )

Life is good, Image got money in bank, Gas in the truck, and food in the fridge and keep our sexy boy friend in bed awwwwwwwwww (sorry my bad habbit. )

Alright!
Whats Your Summer Fun Style? whats Your Holiday Fun style? How about THE PERFECT FUN this year : Miss/Princess – Bazar…. LOL

Sounds fun ya! Well at least for me and my friends, I like Bazar sales,and I used to go to bazar or garage sales often with my friends, I think is fun having fun hunting and looking old stuff or something stuff were some other people not use it any more or old stuff like antique.

Alright, last week me and my friends spent time our holiday time with opening OUR BAZAR for couple days, it’s was been 1 week full we organize from start looking and hunting the stuff we need to sale and sending the brochure door to door.

So many we try to sell, start from clothings,shoes,bag,funiture,electronic,toys ( but not our secret toys he he he, oh NOOOO… thats just for us LOL )

Any way, it was fun…

Going To Party